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A former business consultant who focused on making organizations better, I created the Better Senior Moments website to create a community of seniors to share uplifting information and support.

The idea for this community grew out of my 16-year odyssey where I struggled with cognitive challenges, pain, and health issues that left me disabled and isolated. I have been making steady progress at improving my health over the years, but most particularly since my cognitive abilities have improved. I have been on a dedicated journey for more than a year and each month is better than the last. I am now able to live a fuller, happier, healthier, and calmer life than I ever have.

Thank you to my supportive friends and family! Your encouragement means the world to me.

My path to wellness

Books

Mindful use of modern medicine and Eastern practices– First, fix medical problems as recommended by my doctors, usually with medicine, and supplements and lifestyle changes. Then, my goal is to fix the problem, not just the symptoms.

Empower through self-healing. I believe in the power of self-healing, by reading the signals, controlling one’s mind, and using remedies or practices to feel better.

DietI had significant improvement - calmed IBS, fewer migraines, and improved immune system - after following the Whole30 diet for 45 days and continuing many of the principles. Now, I eat a primarily low-carb diet of organic meat, fruit, and vegetables, like the Mediterranean diet. My treat is Lily’s chocolate with Stevia-like sweetener.

Chelation therapy for heavy metalsChelation therapy in an IV drip for heavy metals.

Breathing exercisesMy success with breathing exercises, particularly the double breathing technique for the diaphragm and lungs, got me off of all-day supplemental oxygen entirely and also calmed me down a lot. I had been a chronic shallow breather, with tightening just above my diaphragm. Luckily, I was able to solve my low oxygen levels with a daily routine of breathing exercises through apps, exercise, and meditation.

Memory support supplementI had a combination of brain fog, cognitive issues, and significant memory problems. One of my physicians, Terry Grossman, was a co-developer of a memory support supplement that was the first thing that made me better, leaving the life of a shut-in.

Early morning sunshineFeeling the sun on my face within an hour of waking up helps regulate cortisol and hormone levels, which can improve energy, sleep, as well as body and mind. See PubMed articles.)

ExerciseMy exercise is mainly through walks and hikes. Dancing to Jerusalema (story of Jerusalema’s world-wide appeal) and routines in the Body Groove YouTube channel are fun. I also practice beginner Tai Chi.

Healthy routines and habitsI have much better routines for spiritual practice, exercise, medical care, eating, down-time, and fun.

Spiritual practicesI bask in spiritual support that has grown through daily practices of prayer and meditation. Looking inward, I have seen what I needed to relish, be compassionate about, let go of, and modify to live in greater harmony within myself and others. I have learned to love and care for myself. Feel spiritually connected to others. Asked to pray for people around the world and children born into our transitioning world. Along with others, I send out prayers of comfort, support, and empathy. I believe in the transformative power of prayer and meditation.

Embrace natureI enjoy and am mindful while in nature. It helps free my mind of needless clutter and gain fresh perspectives. I am more aware of the wind, birds, wildlife, the smell of pine, and the sounds.

Positive mind-setPart of the plan was to focus on raising the quality of my thoughts throughout the day through affirmations and positive thinking.

Louise Hays, author of Healing Your Body, wrote that she believes it is important to spend most of one’s day in positive thoughts. Specifically, she aimed for 80% positive thoughts in any given day.

Since I read that, that was my goal, too. I dramatically limited the time spent watching news programs. I made progress with affirmation and gratitude practices and well as therapy to work through forgiveness and understanding. My thinking also shifted by taking the Serenity Prayer to heart.

More moments of my life happy and joyous.  I believe “what we think, we become”.

SimplifyIt is lovely to declutter my head of negative thoughts, my space of unused possessions, and seek to live a simpler life of tranquility.

Calm Nervous SystemFrom The FibroManual: A Complete Fibromyalgia Treatment Guide for You and Your Doctor, I learned the connection between being my overworked nervous system and fibromyalgia, with degrees of exhaustion and pain.

Overactive nervous system and fibromyalgia
I learned that a fibromyalgia patient’s body, definitely my body, was exhausted from a heightened “flight or fight” reaction. I became stressed which put me in a lot of pain. Lactic acid built up in my muscles. I did not have deep, restorative sleep, which meant that I was prone to have another day’s grind of pain, exhaustion, and a continually anxious nervous system.

Self-healing techniques
I practice meditation regularly. My success with breathing exercises, particularly the double breathing technique for the diaphragm and lungs, got me off of all-day supplemental oxygen entirely and also calmed me down a lot. 

Manage the “fight or flight” cycle
It wasn’t until I realized that I could manage the “fight or flight” cycle and teach my body to dramatically calm down that I made significant strides. I found that magnesium spray on my muscles, particularly my arms, neck, and upper back, broke up the lactic acid and reduced the pain and tension in my arms. I have used it all over my body, wherever it’s needed. The first week I used it once or twice a day and now just use it when I need it. When I take magnesium powder at night, it has a calming effect for deeper sleep.

Awareness
My body now senses when I feel low levels of pain or tension. I use natural remedies — like deep-breathing, meditating, taking a walk, spiritual practice, singing, or dancing — to begin feeling better. The key for me has been to be aware of how I am feeling and address the concerns relatively soon.

  • A Course in Miracles, Drs. Helen Schucman and Bill Thetford, Foundation for Inner Peace. 1975. ISBN 978-1-883360-26-9.
  • Feeling Good Together: The Secret to Making Troubled Relationships Work, David D. Burns, M.D., Harmony. 2010. ISBN 978-0-7679-2082-7.
  • The FibroManual: A Complete Fibromyalgia Treatment Guide for You and Your Doctor, Ginevra Liptan, Ballantine Books. 2016. ISBN 978-1-101-96720-1.
  • Track Fibromyalgia: A Detailed Three Month Journal to Record Fibro Symptoms, Triggers, Medications and More, A.F. White, Greatwood Books. 2022. ISBN 978-1-914297-12-0.
  • Going Home: Jesus and Buddha as Brothers Jesus and Buddha as Brothers, Thich Nhat Hahn, Riverhead Books. 2000. ISBN 978-1-57322-830-5.
  • Healing Your Body, Louise Hays, Hay House. 1984. ISBN 978-0-937611-35-7.
  • How to Get What You Want and Want What You Have: A Practical and Spiritual Guide to Personal Success, John Gray, HarperOne, 2000. ISBN 978-1-4481-1660-7.
  • Lotus and the Lily: Access the Wisdom of Buddha and Jesus to Nourish Your Beautiful, Abundant Life Access the Wisdom of Buddha and Jesus to Nourish Your Beautiful, Abundant Life, Janet Conner, Conari Press. 2012. ISBN 978-1-57324-586-9.
  • The Psychic Pathway: A Workbook for Reawakening the Voice of Your Soul, Sonia Choquette, Harmony Books. 1995. ISBN. 978-0-517-88407-2.
  • Transcend: Nine Steps to Living Well Forever, Ray Kurzweil and Terry Grossman, M.D., Rodale Books, 2010 ISBN 1-60529-207-9.
  • The Whole30: The 30-Day Guide to Total Health and Food Freedom, Melissa Hartwig Urban and Dallas Hartwig, Houghton Mifflin. 2015. ISBN 978-0-544-60971-6.
  • Woman's Comfort Book: A Self-Nurturing Guide for Restoring Balance in Your Life, Jennifer Louden, HarperOne. 2005. ISBN 978-0-06-077667-1.
  • I have studied World Religions for 40 years and recently studied about the Spiritual Awakening of the Fifth Dimension, which addresses spiritual development and healing. If you are interested in learning more about - or sharing what you know - I would love to hear from you.
Six swans in a pond
Six swans in a pond
Six swans in a pond

Frequently asked questions

What does Better Senior Moments do?We create content about living your best life. Visitors may comment about Blog posts, attend monthly meetings, and offer content for the site or blog posts. Our mission is to provide content so that seniors can explore indoor and outdoor Activities that bring them joy.

Senior communities may schedule a Taste of Better Senior Moments presentation onsite in the Colorado Springs area in the United States or anywhere in the world on-line via Zoom.

How can I submit ideas for content for the website?Submit a Contact form.

Where are you located?Colorado Springs, Colorado in the United States

Is the site intended for Americans?Currently many of the recommended books, communities, etc. are in the United States or United Kingdom. We look forward to learning more about what makes seniors happy around the world and sharing that knowledge with our online community.

Several of your recommended books relate to Buddhism. How does that relate to me and my religion?Many of the core beliefs of Buddhists - like kindness, love, compassion, peace - are common across major world religions.

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